1/31/2021 Poetry by Charlie Brice Tom Bennett CC
The Realism of Magic Years ago, when I was one of Freud’s finest, my friend Stan, a psychiatrist, asked what I wanted to accomplish with my patients. I thought of D. W. Winnicott’s answer: the goal, he said, was for the analyst to survive and get paid, which outraged my theory- challenged psychoanalytic colleagues who couldn’t grasp that an analyst surviving the patient’s unconscious hatred permitted them to experience the messy multiplex of all their feelings, while paying the analyst established the analyst as an Other with whom the patient had to deal regardless of his or her desires or fantasies. Think of that! Patients could hate without destroying love and cross the desolate desert of narcissism to discover that other people are separate with their own desires and destinies. But what about my answer to Stan’s question? I said I wanted patients to confront who and what they are and see that there is no magic in the world. Stan was appalled: magic, he said, makes living in the world worth it. I pushed back: once patients recognize who and what they are, belief in magic enables them to never alter anything but insist that mere understanding will make their failing marriages succeed, or take off the pounds, or get them that promotion without ever having to work harder. I knew analysts who kept patients in analysis for years, never urged them to actually do something to change themselves. Stan was unconvinced: he wanted magic in his life and the lives of his patients. If you’re a good person, somehow life works out. If your love is pure, your love life will be fine. Sit back, let life take you where it will. Years later Stan suffered a massive heart attack. It came out that he had no savings, no retirement plan. He survived, but had to immediately return to his practice in order to pay the mortgage, grocery bills, car payments. That’s where he is today: working a forty to sixty-hour week, riding the comet-tail of magic into his eightieth year. Charlie Brice is the winner of the 2020 Field Guide Magazine Poetry Contest and is the author of Flashcuts Out of Chaos (2016), Mnemosyne’s Hand (2018), An Accident of Blood (2019), and The Broad Grin of Eternity (forthcoming), all from WordTech Editions. His poetry has been nominated for the Best of Net anthology and twice for a Pushcart Prize and has appeared in The Atlanta Review, Chiron Review, Plainsongs, I-70 Review, The Sunlight Press, Anti-Heroin Chic, and elsewhere. Comments are closed.
|
AuthorWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview. Archives
August 2024
Categories |