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5/23/2021

Poetry by Tina Lear

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The Velveteen Mother

I would shoplift ten-minute naps whenever
there were ten minutes sitting somewhere unattended.
All three babies were under five years old.

Once, I was just releasing into that first
delicious day-to-night of sleep, when I heard
the two littlest ones fighting over a toy.
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They toddled over on their tiny feet,
wailing, banging on my locked door.
I clenched my teeth, whipped off the covers,

threw the door open, my throat wide open,
and roared at them, “GOD DAMN IT!”
They ran away crying harder.

Their brother, all of five, marched
up to me and said, “Mommy!
They’re little.”

I’ve done a shit ton of work since then.

I’ve felt the hard labor
pains of learning to stay rabbit still
in the grass, to hide in plain sight from the rage hawk.
I’ve breathed and pushed for years to birth a better me. 

Am I there yet? A million invisible decisions--
to close a drawer gently, to open a conversation, to look
at what I’m doing--that and the passage of six rich decades
has rubbed my fur clean off in places. I lost 

a button-eye somewhere along the way,
but nothing bothers me now like it used to.
I’m not anything like the crisp, clean mother
my kids had at first, brand new from the store. She came

rigid and wrapped in cellophane,
in a box bright with passion,
and she was strong, smooth
and scented with risen sap.

My kids loved me out of all that.
They dragged me with them everywhere,
to their sandboxes, their middle school plays,
to car dealerships and into and out of multicolored trouble.

They swam through my belly to swing wide in the world,
but they started out as my little bunnies.
I dragged them with me everywhere,
from the Tuscan bedroom where they were born,

to sagebrush windscapes in Wyoming,
to the AfterDad wilderness of Seattle,
and the warren of airport walkways,
always moving from me to him to me to him...  

Now my back hurts.
My feet are sore at night.
Jars are hard to open.
And newsprint is too small.

And I am exactly where I belong--grateful
most of all to my brave children
who survived my parenting,
who scarred up strong where

their wounds were,

     and made me--
                 as I made them--
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                             real.
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Over the past few decades, Tina Lear’s work has been published in several fields: as a singer/songwriter, three CDs that received nationwide airplay (hear her at reverbnation.com/tinalear); as a composer lyricist for musicals (Cathy’s Creek, Dramatic Publishing, 2005), as a writer, several articles in Tricycle Magazine (a Buddhist review) and elephantjournal.com; and as a poet, work that has twice appeared in germmagazine.com. Her writing is regularly curated by medium.com. For more, check https://www.tinalear.com/home

Lauren Strach
6/1/2021 01:13:09 pm

I loved the imagery. I am a new grandmother and As an old rabbit I’m watching my eldest be transformed by her little one, finding peace with the endless demands. Your words brought it all back.

Christine Bastian
6/1/2021 01:46:56 pm

“My kids loved me out of all that...” It is a slow wearing down—but only if you’re lucky. ❤️

Sherry Heathman
6/1/2021 04:49:57 pm

Wow! I love the imagery of the progression. So beautify written.

Sue Miller
6/2/2021 06:17:41 am

Beautifully written. As a parent, it so resonates. Love the velveteen rabbit story imagery.

Jill
6/2/2021 11:20:42 pm

Beautiful Tina! I loved every word and so relate to the trying to quiet a big temper. This was all perfect!

Sean Caluori
6/3/2021 09:16:21 am

Beautiful! Loved the passage “they swam through my belly”…

Beth Mulcahy
6/7/2021 02:23:18 am

This is moving and beautiful, Tina. Just love it.


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